November 18th, 2011
Friday, November 18, 2011
Sunshine and her loves!
This is a pretty typical sight around our house - Sunshine lying on the couch with her "bankie," her baby, and her fingers planted firmly in her mouth. Such a cutie!
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
A month of emotions...
This blog has yet again taken a back seat. I'm so far behind it's ridiculous. Sunshine is going to have absolutely no memories from her childhood if I don't get going soon! But that's not going to happen today. Today, I just wanted to throw up some quick updates and thoughts.
We've had quite an emotional last month or so. There have been feelings of joy, grief, and fear. Isn't it amazing how we can feel so many things in just a short amount of time.
Joy...
Hubby and I are expecting another little one in May of next year! We're very excited. I'm about 10 weeks along and so far this has been my most difficult pregnancy yet. The nausea that I am experiencing pretty much all day everyday is miserable. Misery can be endured though, especially when you remember that this is just a temporary inconvenience leading up to a joyous miracle.
Grief...
We attended the funeral of a Cursillo Brother this week. After a battle with cancer he is now resting peacefully with our Lord. Each Sunday, I've caught myself grieving over the empty pew in church that he and his wife would sit in each week. Toward the end of his life he was no longer able to attend Mass. Hubby was able to go and visit with him a few days before he passed. At the funeral, his wife told hubby that he called his visit with hubby an encounter and that he had felt love. He was a wonderful man who will be missed dearly.
Fear...
Our oldest friends in Birmingham, J & Y, are also Zep's Godparents. We don't spend as much time together as we did in pre-children days, but they have always been like a part of our family. This couple has been a wonderful God-filled presence in our life. I've often said that if you were to ever look up the word Christian in a dictionary, J & Y's face would be under the definition. Well, just recently my sweet friend, Y, was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer. Her strength up to this point has been amazing. She's been a true inspiration to me. I am scared for Y; she's got such a hard road ahead of her. I beg anyone who's reading this to please lift my friend up in prayer. I know without any shadow of a doubt that God is going to work miracles through her. They may not come in the form of a miraculous healing but more so in the people she touches along the way with her amazing faith and trust in God.
We've had quite an emotional last month or so. There have been feelings of joy, grief, and fear. Isn't it amazing how we can feel so many things in just a short amount of time.
Joy...
Hubby and I are expecting another little one in May of next year! We're very excited. I'm about 10 weeks along and so far this has been my most difficult pregnancy yet. The nausea that I am experiencing pretty much all day everyday is miserable. Misery can be endured though, especially when you remember that this is just a temporary inconvenience leading up to a joyous miracle.
Grief...
We attended the funeral of a Cursillo Brother this week. After a battle with cancer he is now resting peacefully with our Lord. Each Sunday, I've caught myself grieving over the empty pew in church that he and his wife would sit in each week. Toward the end of his life he was no longer able to attend Mass. Hubby was able to go and visit with him a few days before he passed. At the funeral, his wife told hubby that he called his visit with hubby an encounter and that he had felt love. He was a wonderful man who will be missed dearly.
Fear...
Our oldest friends in Birmingham, J & Y, are also Zep's Godparents. We don't spend as much time together as we did in pre-children days, but they have always been like a part of our family. This couple has been a wonderful God-filled presence in our life. I've often said that if you were to ever look up the word Christian in a dictionary, J & Y's face would be under the definition. Well, just recently my sweet friend, Y, was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer. Her strength up to this point has been amazing. She's been a true inspiration to me. I am scared for Y; she's got such a hard road ahead of her. I beg anyone who's reading this to please lift my friend up in prayer. I know without any shadow of a doubt that God is going to work miracles through her. They may not come in the form of a miraculous healing but more so in the people she touches along the way with her amazing faith and trust in God.
Monday, October 31, 2011
Halloween Pizza
Nana brought the boys these pizzas to make. This was one treat that mommy didn't try to sneak a bit of...YUCK!
October 31st, 2011
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Evaluating ME!
I had the opportunity to attend an amazing hardcore Catholic boot-camp this past weekend, otherwise known as Cursillo! This movement has done wonders for me and my faith. You would think that after attending the weekend as a candidate and now after serving three weekends as a team member, it would all be old information for me. But nope...I'm still learning! He's truly not finished with me yet!
Being there, in the presence of some of the most holy women and man I know, really caused me to sit back and take a hard look at myself. I get all the basics of the tripod...piety, study, action. I've always known where I struggle in those areas. No new news there, but definitely a reminder to try harder.
Would you be surprised that what ran through my thoughts the most was the world of technology? I kept returning to it so often that it soon became clear that God was trying to get me to open my eyes.
I found myself remembering a piece of advice someone long ago told me. They place a sign on their television with the question, "Would you watch this show if Jesus was sitting next to you?" I'll admit that my husband has constantly pointed out my lack of morals when it comes to picking out my TV viewing. It drives me crazy. Probably because in the back of my head I know it's the truth.
So, yesterday I ran through my scheduled DVR program list and deleted a lot of shows. Such a bittersweet moment! I know I'm doing the right thing, but goodness it hurt to see that two hours of Grey's Anatomy leave the list of shows needing to be watched. All forms of the Bachelor also disappeared; the Pad and -Ette! It was like saying goodbye to a friend that you know only causes you trouble. How ridiculous do I sound really? I wish I wasn't serious!
Along with my TV addiction, comes my addiction to Facebook. I don't spend hours at a time on it, but the five minutes here and there definitely add up to A LOT of wasted time. Here's the dilemma, I use Facebook for so many necessary things...coupons, homeschooling information, etc. So, I've spent the last two days unsubscribing from just about everyone's news feed that has no relevance to me. I'm hoping this will be a balanced solution.
What hit me the hardest...was a tremendous failure. A friend, actually she's more like a family member, has been going through some tough stuff in her life lately. I was there at first and then suddenly I wasn't. I literally just disappeared when the going got tough for her. Imagining what she must think of my abandonment is crippling. There are no excuses to offer; I simply stunk at being a friend for her when she needed me most. The only step to take now is to apologize and pray that she can one day accept it.
It's hard to look in the mirror; really, really look. You have to look to see the cracks though. Without seeing them how can you even begin to start making repairs. I'm so thankful for the Cursillo weekend for giving me the opportunity to fix what I was trying so hard not to see.
Being there, in the presence of some of the most holy women and man I know, really caused me to sit back and take a hard look at myself. I get all the basics of the tripod...piety, study, action. I've always known where I struggle in those areas. No new news there, but definitely a reminder to try harder.
Would you be surprised that what ran through my thoughts the most was the world of technology? I kept returning to it so often that it soon became clear that God was trying to get me to open my eyes.
I found myself remembering a piece of advice someone long ago told me. They place a sign on their television with the question, "Would you watch this show if Jesus was sitting next to you?" I'll admit that my husband has constantly pointed out my lack of morals when it comes to picking out my TV viewing. It drives me crazy. Probably because in the back of my head I know it's the truth.
So, yesterday I ran through my scheduled DVR program list and deleted a lot of shows. Such a bittersweet moment! I know I'm doing the right thing, but goodness it hurt to see that two hours of Grey's Anatomy leave the list of shows needing to be watched. All forms of the Bachelor also disappeared; the Pad and -Ette! It was like saying goodbye to a friend that you know only causes you trouble. How ridiculous do I sound really? I wish I wasn't serious!
Along with my TV addiction, comes my addiction to Facebook. I don't spend hours at a time on it, but the five minutes here and there definitely add up to A LOT of wasted time. Here's the dilemma, I use Facebook for so many necessary things...coupons, homeschooling information, etc. So, I've spent the last two days unsubscribing from just about everyone's news feed that has no relevance to me. I'm hoping this will be a balanced solution.
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| Photo credited to eeekays photography |
It's hard to look in the mirror; really, really look. You have to look to see the cracks though. Without seeing them how can you even begin to start making repairs. I'm so thankful for the Cursillo weekend for giving me the opportunity to fix what I was trying so hard not to see.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Ancient History...a kind-of review
We decided that we would teach history to our children in a chronological format. The curriculum we ultimately went with was The Story of the World, which originated from The Well-Trained Mind. So far, I really like the program. It's set up to do a chapter each week. They give several different options of how to spread everything out during the week; we chose the four-day approach. Day one and two we read through the chapter parts and then do narration and illustrations. Day three we listen to the CD of these same chapters (I highly reccommend the CD!) and complete our map work and coloring pages. And finally, on day four we read any additional literature I was able to find at the library, OR we do some of the wonderful suggested activities.
I really think this is a great history program for anyone looking into the classical approach of teaching. My only complaints are where they chose to begin Volume 1. Being a Christian history book, I expected to find the first chapter filled with Biblical history, i.e. creation, Adam and Eve, etc. I was disappointed that it wasn't mentioned at all. I have noticed that in just a couple chapters we will be studying Abraham and Joseph, so there is definitely Biblical history in The Story of the World just nothing on creation. Also, my particular library carries very few of the suggested additional literature that is recommended. I am a little apprehensive when it comes to teaching my children a subject that can be very subjective from one single source. Having additional literature would have alleviated this problem.
For now, we'll stick with The Story of the World for our ancient studies. I do think we'll switch to Connecting with History next year though. Of course, I have about 8 months to decide that! Don't you love how I like to worry about things so far off in the distance. My husband's (and my mother-in-law's) favorite phrase is, "we'll cross that bridge when we get to it." I guess I'm more of the, "but we need to know what the bridge is made of, how much weight it will support, and if it will get us to where we want to go," type of person!
In the midst of our Story of the World experience we have discovered fun crafts! The boys learned about ancient writing recently. How wonderful to have them actually make their own clay tablets with their names written in cuneiform! I think it's such an added benefit when we can turn any of our learning into hands-on projects.
September 8th, 2011
I really think this is a great history program for anyone looking into the classical approach of teaching. My only complaints are where they chose to begin Volume 1. Being a Christian history book, I expected to find the first chapter filled with Biblical history, i.e. creation, Adam and Eve, etc. I was disappointed that it wasn't mentioned at all. I have noticed that in just a couple chapters we will be studying Abraham and Joseph, so there is definitely Biblical history in The Story of the World just nothing on creation. Also, my particular library carries very few of the suggested additional literature that is recommended. I am a little apprehensive when it comes to teaching my children a subject that can be very subjective from one single source. Having additional literature would have alleviated this problem.
For now, we'll stick with The Story of the World for our ancient studies. I do think we'll switch to Connecting with History next year though. Of course, I have about 8 months to decide that! Don't you love how I like to worry about things so far off in the distance. My husband's (and my mother-in-law's) favorite phrase is, "we'll cross that bridge when we get to it." I guess I'm more of the, "but we need to know what the bridge is made of, how much weight it will support, and if it will get us to where we want to go," type of person!
In the midst of our Story of the World experience we have discovered fun crafts! The boys learned about ancient writing recently. How wonderful to have them actually make their own clay tablets with their names written in cuneiform! I think it's such an added benefit when we can turn any of our learning into hands-on projects.
September 8th, 2011
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